Purrfect Friends Who Give You Peace!
By Nigar Ataulla, New Age Islam
August 30,2013
Rehana Mohammed Shakir's picture removed on the recommendation of Nigar Ataullah as she was getting nasty mails from some readers, some of them making personal comments on her. (Because she is not in Hijab!)
Spending time getting to know Rehana, her mission and her 14 lovely cats was a truly enlightening experience. I learnt the value of peace, which her fluffy friends radiated. Their calmness and dignity were a clear reflection of “100 percent surrender to God…”, a lesson which I might never have learnt if I sat with 14 “learned” scholars for 14 hours or 14 days!
Meeting Rehana Mohammed Shakir was a very special treat. Here was someone who puts her pets and their comfort on top priority! Setting off with a friend on a cloudy morning to Rehana’s place, I imagined her house to be echoing with meows! After all, I had heard about the more-than-dozen cats she shared her home with! Just as we rang the doorbell, lo and behold! Right at the gate we spotted a fluffy, orange coloured majestic Persian cat welcoming us. “This is Toffee Shakir, my CEO!” Rehana said welcoming us. Petite and pretty, Rehana has “inherited” most of the traits of her 14 Persian cats…..She’s independent, straightforward, warm-hearted, and with a no-nonsense attitude to life.
Hailing from Lucknow, Rehana shifted to Mumbai, and then to Bangalore. She has worked in several advertising agencies, and has a wealth of experience in the advertising field of nearly 20 years. She discovered her love for cats a few years ago, when she adopted her very first kitten to keep her company at home. That was Shehzad, a royal-looking cat—she points to his picture embossed on a mug that graces a mantelpiece. Gradually, sensing her pet’s need for a playmate, she adopted one more, and so the Persian team grew!
Crazy about cats and all other animals, a little less than a year ago, Rehana decided to combine her training in alternative healing with her passionate love for animals, starting, perhaps the only cat pet therapy centre in Bangalore. For a small fee, children can come to Rehana’s home and spend time playing with, learning from, loving and receiving love from her cats.
Rehana feels that there is no better way for a child to let off steam than to bask in the affection of an army of fluffy kitties. The idea behind ‘Rehana Mohammed Shakir’s ‘Pet Therapy with Persian Cats’ came from a personal loss, when she lost her beloved cat, Shehzad, who succumbed to renal failure after a long and tedious battle.
“When I lost Shehzad, I was devastated,” she admits. “For a very long time, I kept trying to find love in every animal I saw. Even the ones on the streets. That is when I truly realized that animals are intelligent beings blessed with the power of unconditional love, spiritual healing and the ability to make anyone feel instantly better with their demonstration of affection,” she says.
So began Rehana’s journey to educate people about not just the physical, but also the emotional, needs of animals and the joy of being able to give love and get love unconditionally from them.
Rehana’s pet therapy centre—which is housed in the apartment where she lives—is a space where parents can bring their children to get a first hand-feel of furry felines. Rehana believes that for kids, it simply isn’t enough to be exposed to book learning and sports—which is much of what conventional schooling is about these days. It’s also important for them to develop their emotional intelligence and learn the art of learning how to love and be loved in return. And that’s where pet therapy comes in.
Working primarily with children, Rehana not only encourages parents to allow their children to interact with her cats freely, but she also educates parents about the fact that with a great pet comes great responsibility.
Though there are many institutions that offer healing programmes assisted by animals, Rehana’s team of 14 Persian cats seems to be the first of its kind. “Cats are 'little people' with their own personalities and emotional needs," she explains. One of her cats, Quamruddin, she says, is amazing with hyper children with aggressive tendencies. He instinctively inspires kindness, gentleness and compassion. Toffee and Zafran work very well with quiet, withdrawn kids. They bring out joy in them. And Shahryar reaches out to just about anyone! He loves to be hugged!
The day I met Rehana, she was all set to bring another cat, Kainaat, to her home. “She was in a security guard's cabin with a twine around her neck as a leash. I tried to help find her a family and when none came forward, our home is now going to became hers,” Rehana beamed.
Rehana started the Pet Therapy Programme when she had just 30 rupees in her pocket, a broken phone and a dead laptop. “It was my answer to the world that mocked me for my choice—of putting an animal before my own comforts. Hidden in the programme was the wealth of love that my cats had brought to my life and which they unhesitatingly shared with the world. I knew the loose change we earn through this programme wouldn’t pay even for cat feed. But I just had to do it. I promised myself that if I had to, I would even sell my belongings to keep my kitty family together and sustain what we do. That’s because I believed in it…with passion!”Rehana explains.
It hasn’t been smooth-going for Rehana. She has faced whispers from well-wishers advising her to “give the cats away” and “lead her life.” In reply to this, Rehana’s post on her Facebook page is truly inspiring:
“When the going gets tough […], you do not give up lives whose responsibility and love is a commitment you made. There is a force way powerful than all of us - that creates the means and protects each life...I do what I do for I believe in it and believe in the humanity within me and in those of my dearest friends who never gave up on me, who backed me with all their might. And that's why we still do what we do. Not for glory. Not for gain!”
(If you are passionate about cats, you could add a bag of ‘Meo Kitten” cat food to your shopping list as a gift for Rehana’s furry friends!)
URL: https://newageislam.com/spiritual-meditations/purrfect-friends-give-peace!/d/13270