Mothering a Muslim: Muslim Kids Have To Face Numerous Challenges and Issues
By Mushtaq Ul Haq Ahmad Sikander, New Age Islam
16 February 2021
Muslim minority in India is facing numerous issues and
battling with many challenges. A number of studies have been conducted on
variegated aspects of Indian Muslims. Media and society has developed numerous
stereotypes and misconceptions about Muslims in India. It has resulted in the
construction of negative image of Muslims and Islam. The violent, criminal and
terrorist activities of fringe elements and peripheral groups are being
constructed as representation of Islam and Muslims. It has given birth to a certain
image of Muslims that is being reinforced by media, who depict Muslims as
intolerant violent lot, sporting large beards and oppressing women. The Muslim
ghettos are being described as the dens of manufacturing terrorists. This
antagonistic environment has resulted in the creation of wide wedge between
different communities. It has led to the prevalence of culture of hate,
intolerance and violence that galore the Indian society now.
Mothering a Muslim
Author: Nazia Erum
Publisher: Juggernaut Books, New Delhi, India
Pages: 220
Price: Rs 325
ISBN: 9789386228536
Muslim children have their own ordeal to relate, but rarely
has any study been conducted to understand the problems that Muslim children
face in India. Nazia Erum in her new book documents the challenges and issues
that Muslim kids have to face particularly in schools. Children certainly form
their opinions about the ‘other’ in schools, homes, through media, peers and
society at large. They cannot be completely protected from the socialization process
that is prejudiced against Muslims. So raising children in an increasingly
polarized society is becoming a cumbersome task. Muslim children are being
bullied or ostracized in schools because of their religion. Schools no longer
offer spaces and environment that is completely free from Islamophobia. Muslim
children are regularly called as Pakistanis and terrorists whenever they
articulate a different opinion or there is a terrorist attack in any part of
the world. Terrorist attacks are being attributed to them, as if they are the
guilty ones. Nazia however overlooks this aspect whether it is the impact of
Globalization or the transnational Ummatic concept that upholds Muslims as a
homogenous lot. This question needs a serious probe, why all terrorist attacks
are being attributed to Muslims? If some terrorist groups are operating in
different countries how come Indian Muslims are held responsible for their
activities? Do people believe that Muslims are a homogenous and monolithic
group having same aspirations, goals and worldview?
Some Muslims too boast about being affiliated to the
transnational Ummah, but that was never a pragmatic and lived reality of
Muslims. Instead it offers only a theoretical and emotional satisfaction to
Muslims that they are affiliated to some Ummah, which offers them no practical
help. In our current era too Globalization has rendered the whole world into a
small village with the modern means of communication. Now the nation-states
have got the right to comment on the ‘internal affairs’ of the neighboring,
friendly, enemy and other nations. The United Nations as a world body is
supposed to mitigate the crisis of masses that exist in different
nation-states. It too has failed in upholding its lofty objectives, so Ummah as
a strong reality has never been a part of the Muslim milieu. Muslims of every
nation state have to face their own problems and battle with their own
realities. Muslims as well as non-Muslims need to understand this very fact.
Our writers need to engage with this question vehemently, that Muslims of every
country face their own problems individually without any mythical, nonexistent
Ummah coming to their rescue.
The bullying and boycott that Muslim children witness in
schools from other fellow students reflects the environment prevalent in their
homes. Muslim students feel segregated in schools and nobody wants to befriend
and play with them, while verbal violence is a reality too. Further religious
bullying is largely brushed aside. Muslim parents also maintain silence about
this kind of bullying because rarely there is a Muslim teacher or administrator
who can empathize with their plight. Even language subjects are divided on the
basis of religion Urdu for Muslims and Sanskrit for Hindus. Many students in
high and higher secondary schools literally have to give up wearing Abayas and
ethnic wear of Kurta-Pyjama. Classroom violence against Muslim students whether
be it calling them terrorists or asking them to leave for Pakistan by their
classmates is now a daily affair. Teachers play a complicit role too by calling
Muslim students terrorists, thus transmitting more hate and prejudices, instead
of bridging the bulging divide. In most cases Muslim students are not invited
to social events like birthday parties. Given the environment of hate, many
Muslims have even changed their names to camouflage their real identity.
On the other hand there are Muslims for whom markers of
identity like Burqa and traditional dress of Kurtas is essential to
remain distinct. They have rendered dress code synonymous with Islam. To add
insult to injury many Muslims who return from Gulf and Muslim clergy trained in
the middle east have a misogynist, strict and rigid interpretation of Islam
that is misfit in the Indian society. Online preachers of hate and internet too
have added to the radicalization among a section of youth. Add Islamophobia to
it and we are staring at a complex web of things.
Nazia Erum has very judiciously probed the phenomenon of
hate prevalent in the schools and directed against Muslim children. She as a
mother is helping raise her child as someone who is a productive Indian citizen
believing in the constitutional values. Nazia believes that mothers can play a
very important role in fighting the hate and helping overcome the intolerance
that is prevalent in schools. It is a difficult task indeed but certainly with
positive efforts things will move in the right direction. However her probe has
limitations and its findings cannot be generalized because despite the prevalence
of hate, her area of study and probe constitute only elite schools that too of
a metropolitan city. Muslim students are being educated in different parts of
India and if the culture of hate was so strong then it certainly would be
difficult for them to pursue their studies in such a hostile environment. Even
in the schools which have been analyzed the students have not dropped out but
continue to be enrolled and with time hopefully the walls of hate will be
decimated. I would suggest to the author to do a sequel of this study after
some years with the same Muslim students and maybe that study can reveal
interesting conclusions. Overall the book is a very important read probing the
lived realities of Muslim students in India.
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M.H.A.Sikander is Writer-Activist based in Srinagar,
Kashmir .
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