By
Sumit Paul, New Age Islam
29 December
2022
Guzarte Waqt Ka Ehsaas Hai
Par Dil Nahin Udaas Hai
Kyon Ke Ilm Hai 'Adam'
Safar-E-Farda Ke Liye Aas Hai
-Abdul
Hameed ' Adam '
' A New Year is a mere change of date/s on the
calendars. What's most important is a change, nay transformation, in one's
outlook. So, change from within.'
-Joseph Conrad
Every New Year must witness a better you.
-A Turkish adage
"
Why should one change with the New Year? A change can be brought about every
day, nay minute."
Anon
"
Time slips away imperceptibly just like sands from the fist. "
An Eastern proverb
(I know
that the time is gliding by/ Yet, I'm not sad/ Because I know 'Adam'/ I've hope
for tomorrow's journey).
" Years are silly segments of time.
"
William Faulkner
(I know
that the time is gliding by/ Yet, I'm not sad/ Because I know 'Adam'/ I've hope
for tomorrow's journey).
The
concluding line of Abdul Hameed Adam's quatrain sums it up: Hope for a tomorrow
that's on the anvil.
The year is
all set to bid adieu and a new year is on the threshold. This is the time, when
all humans have a set of mixed and rather contradictory feelings: Hopeful joy
to welcome the new (year) and a tinge of sadness for the year that'll soon be a
part of the past.
Psychologists
opine that we feel a tad sad when the year is ending because all of us
establish some kind of a familiar rapport with the year. So, when the new is on
the horizon, we have joy and at the same time, a touch of apprehension as to
how'll be the next year. Remember the Ottoman Turkish saying, ' Tera Men Ole
Sobe Bena ' (tomorrow is always better than today and yesterday). It sure is.
We tend to
get used to the rut and routine and begin to love that as the sole option
available to us. A sort of mental complacency sets in and we don't want to
alter that. The human mind doesn't like to break a set pattern. But until that
set and fixed pattern is broken, how can something new and even more exciting
be welcomed? Just the way, a piece of land is ploughed before sowing, by the
time we reach the fag-end of a year, the soil of our existence is ready for new
experiences and beginnings that a new year brings about. Life is all about
accepting and adjusting with new experiences.
Remember,
what we call new is just a part of time's cyclical evolution. Today's new is
tomorrow's past. Walt Whitman aptly said, " New is often a drop of dew
" because time past, time present and time future constitute the seamless
expanse of time. While ushering us in the realm of a new (year), time breaks
our pattern/s with the past and teaches us new patters to adjust with
yet-to-come tomorrow. The Persian word ' Naqish' explains this. It means,
sending salutations to a new phase. That's why, mystics dance and sing when a
fellow mystic shuffles off this mortal coil. Death is no end but a conduit to
paving the way for a new life, new phase and new entity.
At this
juncture, I'd like to refrain from using the word death and have used it only
as a metaphor for something exciting and new. 2022 will soon merge into the
ocean of time and a new year will be on us. That too will be consigned to the
bin of the past by this time around in 2023 because every new beginning comes
from some other beginning's end. This reminds me of a Zen adage, " Who
says time goes? Time stays, we go." We're always on the go. Let's make the
best of the ongoing time for a better and finer tomorrow and concur with Mirza
Ghalib, 'Ishrat-e-Qatrah Hai Dariya
Mein Fana Ho Jaana / Dard Ka Had Se Guzarna Hai Dawa Ho Jaana' --- ‘The
significance of a drop of water is to get merged into the river / When pain
becomes unbearable, it turns into remedy’.
We often
perceive (painful) things through a tunnel vision. We don't let other options
and opportunities emerge out of them. May we all find new ways and avenues in
2023. Happy New Year to all and sundry. Remember, time and tide wait for none.
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Note: A
shorter version of this article was first published in The Times of India
A
regular columnist for New Age Islam, Sumit Paul is a researcher in comparative
religions, with special reference to Islam. He has contributed articles to the
world's premier publications in several languages including Persian.
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