Rational says, "i can't let them go. they coerce on every step and everywhere." . . . .
You can spend your life fighting them or you can build a message of love and brotherhood which, if it grows, can drown out their message of obscurantism and of coercion.
Rational asks, "why it is not important?" . . . . .
It is important only if polemics and debate were your main interest. Otherwise your attitude would be, "Let them believe what they believe and I shall believe what I believe." Unless they try to coerce you to their way of thinking.
Rational says, "ask Sufis if they agree with this." . . . .
Why ask anyone? If you agree with it, that is all that should matter.